In this age of medical technology, a girl needs to do everything possible to make sure her body and face look amazing at all times. I see too many girls who are 7′s and 8′s that could be so much hotter with larger breasts or lips, liposuction in the hips or stomach, or other work done to their body, and are not willing to take the steps necessary to enhance their appearance. I am not sure why certain girls are resistant to upgrading their features with medical help, because when you are in a metropolitan city that is a “meat market”, then you need to do whatever you can to land someone like me who only wants the best. I once dated a girl who was a 9, but with fake boobs would have been a 10, and when I told her to get them she would say “I like my body, if you don’t, then too bad”. I thought it may be a money issue, so I offered to buy them figuring we may date long term, but she refused the offer (I would never make that offer today, that was the “Old Arthur”). I lost attraction for her because during sex I would want more to play with, and eventually I just got tired of settling and broke up with her.

I thought about this during a conversation today, because a fan at Cosi asked me if I had scheduled my Botox appointment, and I told her my appointment is next Tuesday. I am getting wrinkles in my forehead, and even though I take great care of myself and have strong, unique features, I am in an industry that puts a premium on age and appearance, and I need to make sure I stick out in a crowd. I work out six days a week, go tanning, get haircuts every two weeks, make sure that I don’t drink, and eat properly, and I want a girl who lives the same way I do. Personality and a genuine nature is also critical, but I need to always be attracted to the person, and as age catches up with a girl, she needs to be ready to do whatever is necessary to beat it away. I see too many girls who let themselves go, and my friends and I will say “If she only lost 15″ or “I wish her boobs were bigger”, and it’s a shame because I just blow them off.

Some girls are naturally beautiful, and don’t need much work in the beginning, but as they have children or get older it is inevitable that things will sag, wrinkles will develop, and the body will change, so in a time where we want the latest and greatest, I believe a woman should take the same approach I do, and do whatever it takes. Girls, who feel that plastic surgery makes them look “fake”, either can’t afford it, or are just comfortable with someone that may eventually leave them for a better product.

I will be filming on “Ugly Betty” this Friday, and I believe that it is the show’s final episode/season finale. I am excited to be part of this since the show was groundbreaking, and they have requested very attractive people to shoot from Friday afternoon through the night into the morning. Night shoots can be difficult, but I want to make sure that I can be potentially seen by millions of people that will be watching and may notice me.