Why do certain girls have such a tough time being truthful about hooking up? Today at brunch at Marathon Grill, we had an amazingly spirited conversation about how most girls will lie about anything that revolves around sex and their hook-ups. Girls will constantly tell everyone that they didn’t hook-up with a guy, lie about the number of men they’ve slept with, or say that they only made out with a guy when they probably gave him a blow job or slept with him, and we spent an hour discussing how annoying all of these lies get. Because of the fame of “The Journey”, I am so careful who I talk to, with these girls all approaching me to hook-up, and I have to weigh every word they say. What’s even worse is that when they are caught or confronted, they play it off like it still didn’t happen, and I think it actually gets to the point where they actually believe their own lies.

If you ask a girl how many guys she’s slept with, the answer is almost always under 20, but I have had multiple situations where a girl has given me her number, and I have x’ed off guys as I meet or hear about them and you realize that the number is way higher. One friend today said, “Take the number she gives you, and multiply it by three”, and another said last night at G Lounge, “Girls don’t want to look like sluts so they tell you what is acceptable, but it looks even worse when you figure out they are lying”. I respect girls more when they tell the truth, because if you get into a relationship with a girl, and start hearing all the lies she told you about her sexual history, than I have said “Hit the road” many times. I had a situation where a girl told me that she had only made out with a guy, and then the guy told me they went further and I believed him because he had no reason to lie and has always been truthful with me, and never hung out with her again.

The other common lie that a girl will tell is that she is not interested in a guy or hooking up with him, because she wants attention from you, but at the end of the night she ends up leaving you or using you to make him jealous. How hard is it to just be truthful and say, “I like him”, “I’m hanging with him tonight”, or my favorite, “Boy is here, but here’s my number, call me later”. Girls will sleep with guys in the same social circle, and then they don’t understand why no guy looks at them as anything other than a piece of ass. Girls who are 9′s and 10′s are so conscious not to be labeled “Sluts” that they will tell you anything to look better, but I have found that girls who are 7′s and under are just happy to get attention from a guy and will be more apt to tell the truth, because they don’t have much other choice.

One of my girlfriend’s today said, “I don’t know why guys care so much about that stuff, it shouldn’t matter”, but the fact is that guys who are amazing and desirable by the highest levels of women, like us, do care. I responded, “I don’t want to sit at Rouge and see 4 guys that a girl has slept with, and know that they had her before me because in my eyes she looks disgusting”, but all the guys agreed that if a girl went nuts before you in college or another city, and you never have to see any of the dudes, then it’s a “Hear no evil, see no Evil” mentality.

Video and pictures from last night: